Offered Through the Carlini Institute

The Carlini Institute offers the only specialized alternative health training in Adoption Reunion Coaching that takes a unique look at healing the left-over effects of adoption trauma in both natural mothers and adoptees. Our multi-level approach to healing is included in two courses taught together: Certified Adoption Reunion Coaching, with training and certification in Adoption Trauma Reversal Technique™.

Question:  Who qualifies for this course?

Answer:  adoptees and natural mothers along with those in the healing fields such as energy workers, hypnotherapists, and others.

Contents of the ARC Course:

• The Ethics of Transpersonal Coaching
• The Core Issues and Patterns in Reunion
• Adoptee Trauma and Recovery
• Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and Recovery for Natural Mothers
• Loss and Grief Counseling for Natural Mothers
• The Cellular Level of Healing
• The Pain Body
• The Psychophysiology of Stress
• The Imprints of Adoption in Adoptees
• Fully Conscious Healing in Adoption
• Dealing with Repressed Anger
• The Process of Change 
• Multi-Level Healing
• Transforming Negative Emotions in Reunions
• Energy Anatomy of the Chakras (energy centers)
• Energy Anatomy of the Meridians
• Conscious Evolution in Adoption
• The Non-Conscious Immune System
• Birth Imprints in Adoptees
• Adoption Trauma Reversal Technique™ (acupressure treatments)

In this specialized training, we are:

• looking at the imprints of adoption that show up in reunion
• healing the cellular memories
• finding your Personal Adoption Trauma Code
• finding the lessons of the first four chakras
• learning how to reframe the past while resetting the emotional set-point for adoption trauma.  

This course if offered to those wishing to have specialized training as a Certified Adoption Reunion Coach. We offer online and distance learning. So far, we have graduates in Canada, the US, the UK, New Zealand, and Ireland. On completion of the course materials, tests and final project, the student is awarded two diplomas as a  1)Certified Adoption Reunion Coach ADV. and 2) certification in Adoption Trauma Reversal Technique™.

The training has a one-of-a-kind Energy Psychology-Energy Medicine Course approach that takes a unique approach to healing that incorporates the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual levels, rather than simply the mental/emotional level that traditional counseling address. Emphasis is placed on how the emotions create disease in the body, and how we need to balance all four levels in order to heal the wounds of adoption. We also examine how post-traumatic stress disorder influences the natural mother for as many as twenty to thirty years or more following the traumatizing event. Attention is also given to the imprints of adoption in adoptees that create various patterns of behavior on a subconscious level which often re-awakened in reunion. Another part of the course looks at various ways to help process the emotions and help reframe the past so that one is fully present in the moment.

The Adoption Reunion Coaching Course has recently been revised and updated.  The Cost of the course is $1500.00 books and shipping included, along with personal coaching if any of your own memories are triggered.  Approximate completion time for the course is between four to six months. Students are expected to read the lessons, finish a test after each book and do a practicum with clients.

Instructor in the course is Heather Carlini C.M.Ht.  Heather is a certified medical hypnotherapist, medical intuitive and energy medicine practitioner trained in psychoneuroimmunology (the mind body connection to healing) and EFT-ADV with twenty-five years experience in counseling.  Author of two books:  Adoptee Trauma and Birth Mother Trauma both written in 1992.

Note: The course can be paid for in two payments with visa or money order.

If you choose to pay in one full payment you can receive a $100.00 discount, making the total cost $1400.00.

If you are interested in this course please contact Heather Carlini at heathercarlini@carliniinstitute.com or phone 250-652-3284.  If you know of anyone else who might be interested in taking this course, please pass on this information.  If you want to join us, be sure to ask for an enrolment form to be sent to you.  I like to talk to perspective students before they fill an enrolment form to answer any questions they may have to make sure they are suited for the course.

Heather Carlini C.M.Ht.

 www.carliniinstitute.com

heathercarlini@shaw.ca or

carliniinstitute&yahoo.com

250-652-3284

The Carlini Institute for Research, Therapy and Transpersonal Education is a registered institute with the Gov. of British Columbia since 2000.

There is a growing sense of conscious awareness around the world that many things aren’t really as the appeared to be for a long time. Illusion is being uncovered and truth is emerging.

This is a year when many will finally “get it” as the demystifying of life on a grand scale is now occurring and it is unprecedented. The new world view is being created from the inside out, instead of the outside in. We are moving away from instinctual survival to conscious creation through our thoughts, intentions and actions.

Our souls are waking up and it is time to shed the consciousness of victimization and strife and exchange that vision of our world to one of transformation, growth, sharing and envisioning a new reality that we have been striving for. It isn’t about what others did to us in the past that counts as much as what we are creating for ourselves in the present by holding onto the old woundology. Like energy attracts more of the same energy.

In 2010 much is coming to the forefront that was hidden in the past. Universal truths about energy and interconnectedness of all life, is emerging into the mainstream with increased speed.

Announcements of cures of devastating diseases are being revealed and more are yet to come. Researchers are beginning to study how human emotions play a vital role in the creation of health. It is my purpose over the next few years to show how healing the past and forgiving ourselves and others also creates health in our bodies, as I witness daily in my practice. I always ask my clients about any physical symptoms they are experiencing as this provides clues as to what emotional imprints are being triggered in their cellular memories that need to be worked on.

As we try to connect with the frequency of our soul, we first have to let go of the discordant energies of our past hurts that are locked in our cellular memories. These past wounds act are energetic toxins that need to be detoxed on an energetic level.

As a human race, we are beginning to emerge from the fog and we are receiving more clarity. We are expanding from separation consciousness into reconnection consciousness. This reconnection is taking place for everyone on an individual and global scale. We are going from a place of ‘ego centeredness’ to a place of ‘soul-centeredness’ as we heal aspects of our past. Some are further along the path than others.

It is time to release any discord or misunderstandings that might have occurred between us and others in the past. When we heal these misgivings we are able to come from a more authentic place within us. The more we forgive the past, the more creative we become in the present. We need to look at our lives through the observer point of view rather than the victim point of view. This gives us a full picture of what happened in our lives, and how our pain and challenges have presented us with our biggest life lessons.

We all have life lessons that we choose before birth and these life lessons provide us with challenges to overcome and lessons to learn. We need to reverse the energy of our lessons —for instance we change abandonment into connection, abuse into compassion, rejection into acceptance. Everything that happens to us is about energy and to cause a phase-shift from one state to another we have to use the direct opposite energy to cancel out the other (quantum physics) Ah-hah… now you got it! This is the way healing happens. It is about changing the frequencies of our lower emotions to the frequency of higher emotions i.e. We need to make a conscious effort to change our thoughts- that changes the energy- that changes the chemistry. This is how we heal our emotions to bring health to our body. E-motions are energy in motion. If we are running negative thoughts such as anger and producing noradrenalin (chemistry) in the body, we have to change our thoughts that create the opposite emotion to create endorphins to make us feel peaceful. It is a four level process on a mental, emotional, physical and spiritual level.

It is time to let go of the victimization, guilt, shame, blame, mistrust, fear, resentment, betrayal, bitterness, grief, sorrow and hatred. That is a big order, but it all begins with one small step. Each emotion has its own frequency and its own chemistry.

If we choose not to learn the lesson in our wounds and we hang onto them like prized possessions, they will manifest again through another person and situation until we get the lesson and reverse the energy of our negative thoughts.

It is time for us to reshape, recalibrate, reconnect and release what has caused us separation. It is time to let go of the victim consciousness, abuse consciousness, betrayal consciousness and abandonment consciousness. Through the entrance of the new energy we are waking up on new levels, and as we heal the past, new codes are opening up in our DNA.

We are beginning to open up to a new Soul Evolution Consciousness. We are being given lessons of the heart so we will wake up and change the lower frequency emotions held on a cellular level with the higher frequency emotions of love and compassion. This is happening to people around the world. Look at Haiti for instance, it is waking up compassion and love as people from all over the world are sending assistance. Haiti is the prime example of the conflicts of heart energy.

If we want the world to change we have to be part of that change. We bring about change in the world from the inside out… and it all begins with us!

Note from Heather:
Note: I have incorporated this process into the Adoption Trauma Reversal Technique™
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Embarking on an adoption reunion takes courage to move from a predictable “safe” reality, to a new reality that, in the beginning, is unpredictable. You always want to choose what is best for you, but if you can’t find the courage to look beyond your perceived limitations, you can’t open yourself to the possibility of knowing who you are on the deepest levels.

The limitations of knowing the truth of their “true identity” in adoptees is expressed through their beliefs, their actions, their fears of the unknown, their unconscious memories, the emotional DNA imprints and retained messages from being in “utero” before birth. These limitations are confirmed in the ways they sabotage themselves, choosing people and situation that will give them the outcome that keeps reverting back to their possible beliefs that those who love them will leave them. This is the abandonment theme that plays out on many levels for adoptees. They expect rejection, so their will reject others before they can be rejected if they get too close.

When the adoptee plays out the abandonment theme in his life, the emotional trade-off goes along these lines: By clinging to those people they fear they may lose, or by not getting too close to them, they avoid the deeper dread and despair of being all alone.

The path to discovery of their roots is a form of Soul Journey that adoptees embark on to find elements of themselves that are missing, and need to be integrated in order for them to feel “whole.’ It takes courage to separate from the beliefs of the adoptive family who may not hold the same beliefs about adoption reunions. For some adoptees, it is imperative that they set out on this journey of discovery and truth. It is as if their Soul is calling them to complete the circle. Everything in life is circular and not linear as we once believed. When we think of adoption as being a linear process, then adoption appears as a disconnection from one’s roots that can never be reconnected. On the other hand, in a circular process, many adoptees feel the need to bring their adoption full circle and know the ultimate “truth” of their existence. There comes a time, when their Soul pulls them on a journey in search of this “inner truth.”

Sometimes, adoptees have to be willing to stand alone with their convictions and ignore the well-meaning advice of those who want to protect them from potential failure by reminding them of the futility of their dreams.

The desire for fulfillment has to be greater than the adoptee’s fear of the unknown. It is a time to face every limiting belief and fear that they have, and move forward regardless of their fears. Each new step leads them forward into an exciting unknown future whose unlimited potential expands as they accept new opportunities to believe in themselves. As adoptees set out to find the “truth” of who they really are, they need to release all judgments and expectations of the outcome. I believe it is good for adoptees to use whatever information they find and allow it to be a catalyst to their growth.

If the adoptee finds a natural mother who is fearful of the reunion, he must realize that she too has fears of opening up her feelings, and there is a healing process she also needs to go through in reunion. Fantasy has just turned into reality for her, and she needs time to integrate it into her knowledge base. Most natural mothers weren’t told anything about where there child went or anything about the adoptive family.

Adoptees may convince themselves that nothing good could come out of doing a search; consequently, the fear of disappointment keeps them locked into illusion. They may feel judgemental of the past and their natural mother’s actions, without realizing that they may be judging a situation with the wrong information. The purpose of the soul journey is to find out the true facts and incorporate them into their “truth” data base. When they have the added knowledge about their beginnings they feel vindicated. The story may be much better than they ever expected, and they may find complete acceptance — or they may find the story is more difficult — but at least they will know the truth about who they really are.

Adoption doesn’t erase the cellular memories that are attached to the adoptee’s biological DNA. There are patterns of thoughts, feelings, behaviour and traits that come down the ancestral line. This is all part of their Emotional DNA which they didn’t know about in the past. Often they have fears and phobias that are passed down in the family DNA. On the other hand, there are many wonderful talents and gifts that are passed down in family lines. For instance, if they have artistic talents, they may find that there is a long line of artists or musicians in their DNA. These talents are passed down in the genetic line.

In adoption, there is a name change for the adoptee when they are adopted, but nothing can erase the attributes of the DNA that are passed down many generations that makes the adoptee who he really is on an inner level.

Note from Heather Carlini:
I have worked in adoption reunions for some twenty-five years now and I have seen many scenarios. The problem is, there is no post-adoption training in university for therapists, so through my years of research with adoptees and natural mothers, it became my goal to set up a course to teach specialized training in Adoption Reunion Coaching.

The Carlini Institute has been in existence since 2000 and has trained counsellors in Canada, the US, Ireland, UK, and NZ.

For more information on the ARC course material, please check out our website at www.carliniinstitute.com or contact Heather at carliniinstitute@shaw.ca